Life and Death in the Power of the Tongue – Characteristics of Speech
VBC Albuquerque · Oct 30, 2023
This sermon explores the power of speech based on Proverbs 18:21, emphasizing that words reflect a person's thoughts and character while possessing the ability to destroy or build lives. Jesus teaches that we will be judged by our words on judgment day, requiring every believer to guard their speech according to five essential qualities: truthfulness, kindness, wisdom, boldness, and restraint.
The sermon begins with the assertion that no topic is more necessary, important, and practical than speech. Words are the expression of thoughts and inner understanding, revealing a person's attitudes and character. Through speech, we express our will, thoughts, plans, and dreams; exchange information and facts; explain ourselves to others; and show affection and love. Most importantly, Jesus teaches in Matthew 12:36-37 that on judgment day, each of us will be judged by our own words. If we truly believe and understand this teaching, our daily and hourly speech will certainly change.
Scripture teaches five essential qualities of speech for those bearing the fruit of the Holy Spirit. First is truthful, honest speech that does not deceive or manipulate. Second is kind, compassionate speech, gentle words rather than sarcasm, cursing, or bitter language. Third is wise speech, spoken at the right place and time, rather than careless or thoughtless speech. Fourth is bold, straightforward speech rather than evasive, twisted, or double-meaning speech. Fifth is measured, restrained speech, speaking less rather than more, instead of constantly speaking to display knowledge or gain praise. The essential foundation of all these qualities is summarized in Paul's teaching in Ephesians 4:15: speaking the truth in love.
Speech has extraordinary power, capable of destroying and nourishing life. James presents six different images to teach about three powers of speech: a bridle controlling a horse and a ship's rudder demonstrate control; fire and poisonous matter demonstrate destruction; a water spring and fruit-bearing tree demonstrate nourishment. False speech sows suspicion and division, while careless speech is like a sword piercing the soul and honor of others. Yet speech can kill not only physically but also the inner, spiritual, and communal life of a person. Many avoid church and believers solely because of harsh words from one believer. A false witness can cause imprisonment, destroy youth, and devastate families.
The sermon provides numerous biblical examples illustrating these qualities. The story of Abigail and Nabal in 1 Samuel 25 demonstrates the power of kind, well-timed speech, while Michal is punished for her sarcastic and contemptuous words toward David. Prophet Nathan uses a parable to wisely rebuke David about his sin, enabling David to convict himself rather than face direct judgment. The sermon emphasizes that to help and correct a person, we must have courage to speak truth, yet truth only works when spoken in genuine love, with sincere and authentic affection.