Why Questions – Why… Don't Quarrel
VBC Albuquerque · Mar 9, 2025
This sermon explores conflict and discord among believers, using the account of the disagreement between apostles Paul and Barnabas over John Mark as the central example. The pastor presents three main points: no one makes decisions perfectly, everyone has "why" questions about the past, and we must not let the past imprison the present.
The sermon begins by acknowledging that no one in this world has not asked themselves "why" about mistaken decisions and actions from the past. Scripture does not paint only a rosy picture but rather presents the reality of life with its complexities, suffering, and losses. Every biblical character from Adam and Eve to kings and prophets faced regrets about their decisions, whether trivial or profoundly affecting the future.
The pastor details the disagreement between Paul and Barnabas regarding taking John Mark on the second missionary journey. Barnabas, the son of encouragement, believed Mark deserved a second chance because God has forgiven us many times. Paul was concerned that Mark would abandon them again, damaging the faith of other believers and hindering important missionary work. Both had reasonable arguments: Barnabas emphasized grace and friendship, while Paul focused on responsibility and the effectiveness of God's work. The dispute gradually became heated, with each accusing the other of lacking compassion or reason.
The pastor emphasizes that Scripture does not reveal who was right or wrong, only that both remained faithful to God and continued His work along different paths. The important lesson is that God can use even situations of discord to accomplish His will. The pastor guides the congregation to understand that complete satisfactory resolution is rarely possible for everyone, and we must learn to accept consequences when we do our best to resolve disagreements.
Finally, the sermon encourages believers to be careful in judging others, balance between heart/emotions and reason, and understand that we can only do our best to live at peace with all people. The pastor reminds that there are essential matters requiring unity and non-essential matters requiring liberty, but in all things requiring love. The actions of each believer affect not only individuals but also God's reputation and the Church.